Archive for the ‘ School ’ Category

Sep
25

Helping with homework

Now that your child has gone back to school after the end of the summer holidays, the homework begins again. As a parent, it can be beneficial to both you and your child to help with the work that they take home from school. Not only will you be showing an interest in what your child is learning, but you will also be able to understand your child’s strengths and help them to overcome any difficulties that they may have. (more…)

Jul
29

Internet Awareness

The internet can be a great resource for information for your child’s school work, but you will want to be aware of what they are up to on the computer. Although the internet can stimulate your child’s interest in certain things, it is also very open to abuse. Paedophilia grooming does occur although it is very rare. On the internet, anyone can become who and what they want to be, so you will want to know who your child is befriending online. Although your child may not be forthcoming and may consider you as being nosy, you should do what you can to find out exactly what sites your youngster has been visiting. (more…)

Boy In Class

All parents want their children to do well in school and to achieve good scores in all their subjects.  It is so important for a parent to encourage their child and to help them without putting them under too much pressure. Children are typically under enough pressure as it is, and do not need constant reminding. (more…)

Jun
06

These days, children have to absorb huge amount of information at school. Depending on the school and teaching methods of the teachers, your child may have to complete varying amounts of homework.

Educationalists recommend a maximum of half an hour of homework per day for children aged nine to eleven, and a maximum of one and half hours and minimum of half an hour for children up to thirteen. If your child seems to get excessive amount of homework regularly take the issue up with school and teachers.

There are several things you can do to encourage your child to complete the homework without straining your relationship with her or him.

Always allow the child some relaxation time after returning from school. Create a non-distracting, clean, and well lit, place of study so that child can fully concentrate on homework once started. TV in particular must not be allowed to distract the child.

Keep yourself interested in the homework but not excessively so. You should bring yourself up to date on the subjects studied, so that you can be helpful if needed. You should not complete the homework for the child while trying to help.

Never make your child feel as if they cannot complete the homework successfully through their own inability. Always take a positive attitude instead of a negative one.

Plan rewards for the child when the homework is completed, such as more time for doing something child enjoys.

By taking these simple steps both your child and you will find the homework a rewarding activity instead of a chore.

Jun
06

While backpacks are an essential, parents must remember that regular use of heavily loaded backpacks can cause several long lasting problems.

These unwelcome side effects are confirmed by several studies including one by American Academy of Orthopedic Studies or AAOS. According to the studies, heavy backpacks stress and strain, spine and shoulder muscles. These strains in turn, in addition to fatigue, lead children to droop and to assume unattractive postures.

So how heavy is too heavy? That depends on the child’s weight and his or her fitness. According to AAOS guidelines, backpacks should not weigh more than 15 to 20 percent of the child’s weight. To illustrate, 100 pound child should not carry a backpack weighing 20 pounds. However this is just a guideline, if a child is very fit, he or she may carry a little more, and if not, must carry less.

Observe your child’s actual reactions when carrying the backpack to decide. If the child seems to droop, has difficulty in mounting the backpack to shoulders, complains of pain afterwards, and has marks on the skin, then you must immediately act to change the backpack and its weight.

You can also take some steps when selecting backpacks and later, to preempt problems that may arise. Select wide padded backpacks with padded straps to reduce strain. Buy backpacks with hip straps in addition to shoulder straps. Similarly try backpacks that can run on wheels when floor conditions allow. Encourage your child to correctly use and mount backpack and straps, in order to distribute weight evenly. When packing, tell your child to so place heavy items, in a way that they end up next to the spine. Encourage child to lift the backpack by bending and straightening legs at knees, instead of using hands alone. Finally encourage your child to make full use of school lockers and discourage carrying useless books.

Jun
06

There are several things you can do in that regard.

  • Most children are apprehensive about their first day. You should talk to them. Get them to express their fears to you. Let them ask any question they like about school and answer them patiently. Tell them about school experience, what they will get to do there, and about other children they will meet. Lay stress on activities they will learn to enjoy at school. Give an explanation about the time they will be spending, and routines they will have to follow, at school every day.
  • In addition to allaying their fears, you should try give them some experience with the kind of things they will be dong at school. Encourage your child to play with other children in a group to develop their social skills. Teach them about taking turns and sharing. Give your child opportunities to speak or recite in front of others. Allow them to practice drawing and painting, and to play with other toys found in school settings.
  • You can also role-play with your child about going to school and engaging in learning activates there.
  • Choose his or her school uniform and bag, with child’s active participation in those decisions.
  • Visit the school with child if that is possible, and make use of any transition programs school may have. Such familiarity will significantly reduce the initial stress child will feel on first day

All in all you can do a lot to reduce your child’s anxiety to great extent, and to make that first day an enjoyable and memorable experience.